Update on Life… and Death

December 7, 2009 on 11:49 pm | In Life | 6 Comments

Prepare to be depressed. (If you don’t want to be depressed, just skip this blog for now, k?)

My Mom is dying of lung cancer. Yesterday, I was finally told she’s terminal and may have a few months – at most. I am not handling it well, as one might expect. My Mom is my best friend and always has been. I have no idea how to live without her. To give you some idea – we went to law school together. She was actually a year ahead of me. When I graduated, they allowed her to award me my degree onstage at Avery Fisher Hall in New York City.

She’s at a local hospital for the moment and I’m working on getting a second opinion at Sloan Kettering Cancer Center. After that? Who knows. It’s in God’s hands.

So as you can imagine, I won’t be around much. My books are the last things on my mind right now. My readers are on my mind and I want you all to know how much I appreciate the prayers, good thoughts and healing vibes being sent our way. Keep ‘em coming. My Mom and I believe very strongly in the power of prayer, so please say a prayer for my Mom, Sophia, if you’re so inclined.

Thank you and I’ll try to keep you posted once in a while. If you have any ideas for me, please pass them along. I’ll be around a little, but probably not interacting much until and unless things settle down a bit. Wish us luck… and pray for a miracle.

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  1. You’re stronger than you think you are, Bianca. And so is your mom. She might even surprise you.

    Comment by Maria Zannini — December 8, 2009 #

  2. Sweetie, Your strength is also in God’s hands. He will help you take care of yourself and do what you need to do.

    Comment by Terri — December 8, 2009 #

  3. She is in my prayers as are you and your family. It is all in God’s hands and may he watch and keep you all, and may he be a comfort to you as well in this time of need.

    Comment by Suzette — December 10, 2009 #

  4. I’m thinking of you, Bianca.

    Comment by Jana J. Hanson — December 10, 2009 #

  5. You know you and your Mom are in my prayers, where you stay, not just for bad things. We will be here!! Family is what is most important. God bless you and your family!!!

    Comment by LaceFace — December 12, 2009 #

  6. you and your mom are in my prayers.

    Comment by Kris — December 21, 2009 #

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